Play therapy offers children a language beyond words. Just as adults use talk to process and reflect, children naturally turn to play to make sense of their experiences. In a safe and supportive environment, play becomes the child’s voice. 

It is often used with children between the ages of 3 and 12. It’s especially helpful when children struggle to express their feelings through words. Therapists use play to gently understand what the child is experiencing, whether it’s a social, emotional, or behavioural difficulties. 

child playing with a pink pony demonstrating play therapy

How Does Play Therapy Work?

Your child’s therapist will use a mix of creative tools, including puppets, sand trays, art materials, or games, depending on what resonates with the child. In the therapy room, children aren’t told what to talk about or how to behave. Instead, the therapist follows the child’s lead with curiosity and care. Over time, patterns emerge. A child might replay the same storyline, repeat symbols in their drawings, or shift from chaos to calm in their play. 

The therapist gently reflects and supports the child’s experience, helping them name feelings, build internal safety, and develop emotional resilience. Parents may also be invited into the process through regular updates or support sessions, depending on the child’s needs.

Most children attend weekly play therapy sessions. Some may show progress after six to eight sessions, while others benefit from longer-term support. After therapy, children often feel more settled and better able to manage their emotions. You might notice more confidence, fewer outbursts, or new ways of expressing themselves. 

What Can Play Therapy Help With?

Some children go through experiences that may be too big or confusing to understand on their own. Play therapy can help them navigate: 

  • Anxiety or frequent worries
  • Emotional outbursts, aggression, or withdrawal
  • Separation, divorce, or family changes
  • Grief or loss of a loved one
  • Trauma, medical experiences, or major life disruptions
  • Low self-esteem or difficulty with peers
  • Sensory overload or difficulty regulating emotions

If you’re considering play therapy, let’s talk about whether it’s the right fit for your child. 

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jennifer pinto, registered psychotherapist in toronto specialising in grief and trauma therapy
Jennifer Pinto
Registered social worker, MSW, RSW

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